Most Common Cheating Signs — Always Look for the Obvious
Ottawa-Gatineau is a great place to live, but it’s certainly not exempt from being home to various cheaters. Cheaters are all over the world, and they have no mercy when it comes to breaking the hearts of their partners. When it comes to the most common cheating signs, I certainly have my fair share of experience. I have lived in Ottawa-Gatineau for most of my adult life, and I’ve been cheated on by more women than I can count on two hands. To be honest, I’ve lost track of how many women have cheated on me. I’m open to the possibility that the potential to cheat is inherent in all women (or even all human beings in general), but at this point, I can’t help but think that the common denominator in these cases is me, and that there’s something about me that drives women to cheat. Regardless, in my experience, I’ve learned that the cheating signs always become obvious when you look back on them. However, if you’re attentive enough, you’ll be able to catch all cheating indicators as they occur.
Common Signs of Cheating — Basic Trends
While all cheaters have their own specific patterns of behavior, there are some basic trends that most cheaters tend to follow. These range from the classic “working late” excuses to illicit internet behavior. The signs might come through all media, so you need to be constantly vigilant.
Cheating Signs — Are they Acting Weird?
You know your partner more than anyone else does, so you’ll naturally be the first one to sniff out when something is off about them. Are they breaking eye contact earlier than normal? Are they sneaking off into strange rooms in the house with the laptop? Are they acting weird in any way, shape, or form? Strange behavior can be derived from all sorts of things. That includes cheating, so be on the lookout for suspicious activity.
Are They Cheating? Suspicious Phone Behavior
Are they cheating? Well, this is the fundamental question. It might boil down to something as simple as how they use their phones. People who have nothing to hide will not think twice before leaving their phone in plain view, on a kitchen counter or coffee table. Cheaters, however, will keep their phone with them at all times. They are so meticulous in this tendency that it instantly becomes noticeable. If your partner is taking the phone with them every time they go to the bathroom, and you even hear hushed voices from behind the door, something fishy is going on.
No Sex Drive in Sight
One of the key indicators of an unfaithful partner is a total or near shutdown of their sex drive. People with normally healthy libidos will show signs of no sexual appetite whatsoever, at least to their partner. This is because all of their sexual energy is being expended on the people they’re having affairs with. If your partner has not shown any signs of sexuality in recent memory, there may be a need for further investigation. At the end of the day, how you choose to deal with a potentially unfaithful lover is up to you. Whether you choose to leave the relationship or try to repair it, you must be made aware of a partner’s cheating tendencies, if in fact they have been unfaithful to you.